Like many of you, I too was a skeptic of B & B’s. But after celebrating our one year anniversary at The Casitas of Arroyo Grande Bed & Breakfast, I can honestly say there are a lot of benefits to guys that plan a stay at a luxury B & B. For example:

1. Gourmet breakfasts abound. Try finding something half as yummy at any hotel…and it’s included in your overnight stay!
2. Concierge service without any lines and with your interests at heart. Innkeepers on site will make your visit special and know the local hidden gems that they want to share with you. You don’t need to have much planned aside from booking the room, the owners will help make your trip a great memory after you arrive.
3. Surprise your significant other! They will be very appreciative of your romantic intent, and you score big-time too!
4. No, you do NOT hear your neighbors through the walls–many B&B’s are secluded and private stays–
   AND you will likely have your own full bath as well as other features like a fireplace bedside or gorgeous view, (contrary to old mis-perceptions about B&B stays).
5. Escape! Peace and quiet, many B&B’s are nestled in a natural setting–while you’re still close to civilization and have the choice of great things to do!  Many are located near very cool attractions, whether it’s a charming neighborhood in DC, an ancient fishing village, or a small CA coastal village near wineries.
6. History, and something special off the beaten track! Many properties are converted vintage or unique estates–they offer something very memorable that your significant other will treasure and want to return to again. (see #10, for how that also works again!)
7. Amenities! Fluffy robes, wine and cheese fireside, fine bath salts for a soak in the tub, super comfortable king size beds, and (yum!), chocolates on your pillow.
8. Technology–B&B’s are generally NOT in it to nickel and dime you, today many feature free open wireless, hi-def satellite or cable TV, and iPod hookups so you have it all and never have to leave the haven of your room or cottage.
9. Stay-cations! You’d be surprised to find a romantic B&B almost in your own backyard, and we never seem to make the time to experience what’s around the corner from us–being green and saving on fuel costs to boot…more to spend on food and other goodies during your outing.
10. MAJOR BROWNIE POINTS! How many birthdays and anniversary gifts are hard to figure out and lack that creative flair? Your partner will flip over your creativity if YOU do the planning for a romantic getaway.

So, what are you waiting for? Make a bold move today or for those already ‘in the know’ about the huge bennies of a luxury B&B stay, remind that special someone, new or old, that you’re dialed in and have that romantic, thoughtful flair–Go guy!

Some of our favorite All Star “Go to Guys”:

Steve Eberhart took Laurie to the real "Wisteria Lane"!

Ray Neufeld has Jane right where he wants her, at The Casitas!